Okay I know I have explained before that I dont condone cheating on your partner. I think that not only is it something that you should be ashamed of, it will have an impact on the relationship because he or she cant look at you in the same way again and the trust is no longer there.
But what if, driven by circumstances, that you are revisited by your past, a.k.a your ex, whom you broke up before over issues that could not be resolved at that point of time or the time just was not right. Old feelings start to come back again and you are stuck with a dilemma.
I like watching soap dramas and despite watching them in several different languages, like French, Catalana, German (who are BY FAR has the most handsome actors..woot!) and etc, the language of love is universal. Heh, apparently the idea of cheating too.
Now of course to deny yourself of love is a mistake in itself. Why let yourself be burdened by unnecessary thoughts that will snatch you of precious times and memories with someone who may very well be the future love of your life? Opportunities like this do not come all the time. Unfortunately, such opportunities might come at the wrong time when you were not quite prepared. But hey, everyone deserves a second chance. People make mistakes.
Now the tricky bit is what if you are under a different circumstance altogether such as when you thought you had found love but is not exactly what you're looking for. In this case, I think honesty works best. Being honest to yourself, being honest to your current love interest and being honest to the one whom you'd rather be with.
Im sure when you watch some dramas, you would rather see A end up with B rather than C. A might have been hurt by B's actions, has started to move on with his life and then B repents and A starts to feel all soft and gooey for B again.
Then C, being the poor fellow, may be unfortunate enough to know that A and B are going out secretly leaving him in a fix because his feelings have been cheated of. As much sympathy as I have for C, unfortunately C may appear to be standing in the way of true love. Of course who would want to know if their significant other is cheating on them. It will be so heartbreaking.
So as I have said earlier, before foolishness sets in and all hell breaks loose, be honest. Well I know dramas are meant to be so..er...drama...but hey, once in awhile why cant they show the right thing to do to pave the way for love? I am kinda sick of the idea of jilted love because it gives people the wrong idea that love can be.....destructive.
Honestly, I am watching this drama and I suppose a majority of the viewers would want A to end up with B again. My selfish reason is because B is cuter and all funny and goofy. C is still cute but to me, I see B being more on par with A than C. The chemistry that they share totally screams 'We're meant for each other!!' And also coz C made A played pictionary for 3 freaking hours. Who the hell plays that long?!
'Nuff said. Honestly, even though A and B had got themselves in hot soup behind C's back in the recent episode, I am still rooting for them to be together. Like I said, some people are just meant to be with each other. So screw C! Yes yes I know..cheating aint good...but it's drama! What's drama without tensions eh? Im just saying in real life, honesty works best although the impact of it may be as hard as a meteoric crash on earth but it's better than being kept in the dark and finding out through a third party source right?
So think about it. Bottom line is, you are who you are and you deserved to be loved and also people deserve being given a second chance. It's not as if we're stuck forever in a heartbreak hotel, right? But just play safe, not sorry coz the guilt can be so unbearable.
But what if, driven by circumstances, that you are revisited by your past, a.k.a your ex, whom you broke up before over issues that could not be resolved at that point of time or the time just was not right. Old feelings start to come back again and you are stuck with a dilemma.
I like watching soap dramas and despite watching them in several different languages, like French, Catalana, German (who are BY FAR has the most handsome actors..woot!) and etc, the language of love is universal. Heh, apparently the idea of cheating too.
Now of course to deny yourself of love is a mistake in itself. Why let yourself be burdened by unnecessary thoughts that will snatch you of precious times and memories with someone who may very well be the future love of your life? Opportunities like this do not come all the time. Unfortunately, such opportunities might come at the wrong time when you were not quite prepared. But hey, everyone deserves a second chance. People make mistakes.
Now the tricky bit is what if you are under a different circumstance altogether such as when you thought you had found love but is not exactly what you're looking for. In this case, I think honesty works best. Being honest to yourself, being honest to your current love interest and being honest to the one whom you'd rather be with.
Im sure when you watch some dramas, you would rather see A end up with B rather than C. A might have been hurt by B's actions, has started to move on with his life and then B repents and A starts to feel all soft and gooey for B again.
Then C, being the poor fellow, may be unfortunate enough to know that A and B are going out secretly leaving him in a fix because his feelings have been cheated of. As much sympathy as I have for C, unfortunately C may appear to be standing in the way of true love. Of course who would want to know if their significant other is cheating on them. It will be so heartbreaking.
So as I have said earlier, before foolishness sets in and all hell breaks loose, be honest. Well I know dramas are meant to be so..er...drama...but hey, once in awhile why cant they show the right thing to do to pave the way for love? I am kinda sick of the idea of jilted love because it gives people the wrong idea that love can be.....destructive.
Honestly, I am watching this drama and I suppose a majority of the viewers would want A to end up with B again. My selfish reason is because B is cuter and all funny and goofy. C is still cute but to me, I see B being more on par with A than C. The chemistry that they share totally screams 'We're meant for each other!!' And also coz C made A played pictionary for 3 freaking hours. Who the hell plays that long?!
'Nuff said. Honestly, even though A and B had got themselves in hot soup behind C's back in the recent episode, I am still rooting for them to be together. Like I said, some people are just meant to be with each other. So screw C! Yes yes I know..cheating aint good...but it's drama! What's drama without tensions eh? Im just saying in real life, honesty works best although the impact of it may be as hard as a meteoric crash on earth but it's better than being kept in the dark and finding out through a third party source right?
So think about it. Bottom line is, you are who you are and you deserved to be loved and also people deserve being given a second chance. It's not as if we're stuck forever in a heartbreak hotel, right? But just play safe, not sorry coz the guilt can be so unbearable.
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