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Fancy Dissing Local Men

hello....

i just read this article in a magazine and she was over the moon about her ang moh boyfriend and he's a heck lot better than local chinese men. funny she should do the comparison considering she never dated any local chinese men before. Then her current boyfriend and ex boyfriends have been nice to her especially the current one who never failed to say how beautiful she is even though I seriously beg to differ. I know Singaporean men are pretty narrow minded and they're not very gentlemenly especially when it comes to boarding the bus and no matter how heavy your load is, they SOMEHOW tried to squeeze through the side. I feel like im fighting for my life everytime I go up the bus. And they dont help to press the lift button when I go up too and there I am struggling to stick out a finger to press the button for my floor.


But just like her, I love ang moh guys..purely coz they're so freaking good looking with out there features and i-like-to-pinch biceps. They are also not as kiasu as our local chinese singapore men..ah..truth be told..local men of all races!!


HOWEVER, what she is going through right now is what I call a honeymoon period. Seriously woman, wake up and open your eyes a bit. Fancy dissing the local men when you're there writing basically about the little things your current boyfriend does that make you see stars in your eyes. How would you know our local men are not able to say or do those things. Just because your friends' LOCAL boyfriends sucks and then you don get a good seat on the bus, you cant go about dissing them. Dont you even read the gossip pages of La La Land? They can just drop you like a hat where else the local men....though timid and shy at times (which explains why im boyfriendless) they can be more faithful and probably think twice before dumping you. Why? COz they're so shy and timid, that the sheer mention of 'let's break up' will get a tight slap across the face making them change their mind in a quickie as in 'i was just joking!!!' hahaha........


But then again, I have never dated seriously..and er..seriously, I have never dated..whichever you want to put it...it's the still the same. I am not gonna be all for local men or all for caucasian men because men..no matter what their race is, can be a lot to handle..almost like caring for a baby. Okay more specifically, a little devil reincarnation.


Like I said she is still in the honeymoon period where the guys will never fail to impress especially when the relationship is still new. This is the same for both local, foreign or whichever race they are. I would say....she has to be careful coz if she relies too much on him making the first move in the relationship while she bask in his 'glorious' praises to boost her flailing self confidence (and writing this stupid article) then he will be gone finding a new chinese chick. I dont think that will be a daunting task for him coz Im positive the rest of the female chinese population like WAY better than her.

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